Turn the Worst Day Ever into the Best Day Ever

Let’s face it, we’ve all had bad days. 

Sure, life has ups and downs, but our capacity to weather storms (both literal and figurative) has really been tested, especially in the last few years.

In creating 2022’s end-of-year gift (a treasured tradition!), we thought about the good things that help us pull through when life gets hard: a bit of grit, plenty of resilience, and lots of gratitude, unconditional love, and mutual support.

Our story, featuring our new friend Nimbo, was born from a well of nurturing—words make us pause and see our lives in a new way.

We hope these words, and Nimbo’s journey, will energize YOU to put the pages back together when your own Book of Life feels a little ragged around the edges.

Ready? Great! 

Click on the image below to experience this sweet and fun journey for yourself.

Turn up your volume and enjoy the next five minutes of your day. 

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Let us know what you think in the Comments on LinkedIn here.

 And the message from this story applies all year long…not just during the holidays.

Think of Nimbo the next day you’re having a bad day; there’s always a chance to turn it into a better day.

The Magnificent Seven: Hallmarks of a Human-Centered Organization

You’ve probably noticed that we’ve been in a bit of a crucible. We’re being tested by extreme weather and temperatures in some of our most cherished places, a global public health crisis, a global mental health crisis, a global economic crisis, social injustice and unrest, and an all-time high of economic inequity. 

It’s tempting to tune out, but people and the planet are hurting. And so will our businesses, unless we seize the opportunity—and the responsibility—to drive social change. 

The businesses that are best prepared to survive this crucible are the ones that live in the world responsibly. The ones that support humans and the planet with freedom and abundance. The ones that step up for their people when life knocks them down. 

At SweetRush, we love to see our people living and working in a state of flow and abundance, and we strive to maintain that state as much as we can.1 But we realize how rare it can be in the world. Witness the millions of workers who have already heeded the carpe diem call to change jobs2,3—and the 40% who are still looking.4 

What are these folks seeking? A workplace concerned with the “care and resilience of human workers”5 and “the big global we” beyond our immediate families, social networks, and teams.6 

That’s called a human-centered organization—or, as we like to say, a life-centered business or organization.7 Human-centered and life-centered organizations don’t just offer a kinder, gentler employee experience; they also do markedly better business and leave the world better than they found it. 

If you’re still with me, you’re likely convinced of the value of human-centered work and life. But you may still be wondering how to initiate—or build on—a transformation within your own team, department, or organization. Wherever you sit, these seven hallmarks will help you build a human-centered leadership practice. 

#1: Start with the Golden Rule

Whatever their industry, and whatever their role, everyone wants to feel engaged and treated fairly.

That means treating our employees with the same care we want to receive from them or, in more transactional terms, giving as good as we get.

Human-centered leaders want to enjoy abundance and freedom from suffering, so they provide it to employees. They want grace when they make mistakes, so they show grace to others when they do the same. They want the space to practice their crafts and learn, so they provide that space for others. They want to receive empathy and support from others so—you guessed it!—they make a habit of showing empathy and support for their employees.

Because these actions come from leadership, they speak louder and stand taller. They also demonstrate that the Golden Rule is a yardstick used every day, at every level of the organization.

At SweetRush, we use the Golden Rule to decide:

  • Which projects we take on
  • Which corporations we partner with
  • How to accomplish our work
  • How to behave and communicate with our colleagues and partners

That means turning away prospective partners when our values don’t align—and holding one another accountable for our words and actions. 

These conversations can be tough! But sharing this fundamental value makes the tough stuff easier.

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#2: Offer Autonomy and Flexibility

You might be one of the many leaders standing on the remote/hybrid/in-person workplace Rubicon (if these options are viable for your business) and wondering: Should we go back to the way we were? 

If you ask us, we’d say an emphatic no. Remote work is the life-centered choice—and the best one for your business. 

If you’re still thinking of remote work as a perk to be rationed sparingly, it’s time to update your mindset. Your employees have been doing their jobs (and then some) for over a year.

No one—not your team, your managers, or your clients—will benefit from reintroducing the daily commute. Taking it away has returned a valuable hour (or more!) to your employees every day. That’s an hour they spend being a human being instead of white-knuckling it on a highway—truly a great application of the Golden Rule.

Of course, remote doesn’t work for every position. Sometimes employees do need to show up and serve the guest or make the thing. Even for knowledge-based roles, remote work may not work all of the time. Some people need—and want!—a separate workspace. 

How to make everyone happy? Give them a choice

If you’re maintaining an office space, offer employees the opportunity to work there—at least once in a while. If you’re in a manufacturing or construction setting, offer employees as many choices as possible as to when and how they work. 

If work sites, hours, and processes are written in stone, give employees autonomy around the type of recognition they receive. Sound frivolous? General Mills boosted the engagement and morale of its hard-working manufacturing team by offering employees three options for receiving their bonuses: cash, time off, or a charity donation.8 The amount was modest, but being offered a choice made employees feel valued and respected—and it started a lively internal conversation! 

In short, let the Golden Rule be your guide. Your employees want the autonomy to manage their work and schedules, just as you do. They want as much choice as possible in when, where, and how they work. They’d love to be asked for their feedback on how to streamline procedures and processes—and listened to when they share. From the custodian to the C-suite, everyone thrives when they feel trusted and respected.

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#3: Show Care

Like shoulder pads and smoking sections, cutthroat corporate culture needs to be a thing of the past. But with 75% of employees reporting a lack of empathy in their work environment, it’s clearly still alive and well.9

It’s never a weakness or an impediment to productivity to choose the most humane path—and doing so helps your employees share the wealth. When their needs are met, your employees have the bandwidth to extend grace and support to clients and colleagues who are going through a rough time. 

Our CEO and Cofounder Andrei Hedstrom likens care at work to the “gravitational force” that holds people together in a committed relationship; it’s powerful, but it can be eroded. That’s why the human-centered organization should work to continually strengthen that force holding its people together. 

#4: Find the Words

I’ll keep this one short: Verbalizing care is an important step, especially in virtual work when cues like gestures and body language don’t come through. Getting verbal with employees is an important human-centered leadership practice: Strong and silent doesn’t work anymore.

Here are some examples of how care might sound (and read!).

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#5: Accept Care

Here’s the flip side of verbalizing. If someone offers you a compliment, take it! Even if you don’t agree that you’re funny, a great speaker, or amazing at Zoom karaoke, the added confidence just might boost your skills. That’s a hack straight from Cofounder and Human-Centered Leader Arturo Schwartzberg: He finds himself striving to deserve the compliment—and doing better in the process. 

Human-centered leaders do a lot—and we tend to do it alone. But accepting the occasional offer of help can strengthen our relationship with our peers and employees. All humans feel richer when we can give to each other—even when we don’t have much to give. Ben Franklin observed that we like people more when we help them, and this feel-good effect has been confirmed by more recent psychological studies.10 

Practice saying yes—it’s a win for everyone. 

#6: Practice Radical Candor

Showing and accepting care doesn’t mean we don’t engage in tough conversations; in fact, it enables them. That foundation of care has to be solid for radical candor11 to land.

When we gather, we share responsibility for what happens during our time together. That means being accountable for our words, actions, and commitments12—and this accountability isn’t just for SweetRush people. We also hold our clients accountable. 

We want to partner with clients, which means delivering bad news along with the good, and negative feedback along with the positive. It’s hard for some clients to hear that they’re going out of scope or that they’re impeding the development process. 

Radical candor is part of the SweetRush experience—and it’s part of what helped us weather the financial crisis of 2008 and 2009. Throughout that challenging time, we kept our clients updated. Even though the news was often hard to hear, they knew that they could trust us to meet revised deadlines and project scopes. That trust—and their grace in accepting what we could deliver after our best-laid plans changed—played a huge role in our survival. 

Though our client list has grown, we still work with clients who share our values—and who are comfortable holding the tough conversations. 

#7: Share a Mission

Whatever its industry, every human-centered organization is in the business of making lives better. You’ll probably want to narrow that mission down a bit to fit your business, but keep it aspirational and inspiring. 

For example, SweetRush’s Big Hairy Audacious Goal is to positively impact the lives of a billion people through our craft. It is pretty audacious, but every project gets us closer. That’s a key part of human-centered work and leadership—working together in service of a meaningful cause. 

Our human- and life-centered initiatives add another layer of purpose. For example, Good Things gives our teams the opportunity to practice their craft in the service of nonprofit organizations that perform vital work in education, human services, and the environment. Team members count their work on these projects among the most meaningful events of their lives—on par with meeting their life partner or child for the first time. 

In spring 2021, we added to our shared mission with La Maestra, an initiative that offsets the carbon footprint of every project by planting trees in the Costa Rica rainforest. Both our team and our clients have rallied behind the opportunity to build a legacy with their work.

Offering employees (and clients!) the chance to share a larger mission might not be the most obvious application of the Golden Rule. But when we do so, we help folks with different beliefs, backgrounds, and politics gather around a cause that unifies rather than divides. Bridging those divisions is a wonderful example of living in the world responsiblyand leading by example.

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The Magnificent Seven at Work

You’ve gotten a sample of how human-centered leadership looks, sounds, and feels. And though beginning with the Golden Rule feels intuitive, implementing it at the organizational level can raise questions. 

We hear you! That’s why we’ve created a toolkit for thinking about and evolving your own organization. Our eBook It’s All About Your People!: Embracing Human-Centered Business, Workplace Culture, and Learning Design offers a curated collection of the best mindsets and practices from our two decades together as a life-centered organization—and decade-plus as a fully remote team. We’ve got plenty of proven steps leaders like you can take today (or anytime!) to create a workplace that helps you, your people, and your business thrive.

References

  1. https://www.sweetrush.com/human-and-business-benefits-of-boosting-employee-resilience
  2. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/workers-quitting-jobs-record-rate-economy/
  3. https://www.businessinsider.com/job-quits-in-may-2021-one-job-opening-per-worker-2021-
  4. https://ms-worklab.azureedge.net/files/reports/hybridWork/pdf/2021_Microsoft_WTI_Report_March.pdf
  5. https://www.accenture.com/us-en/insights/future-workforce/employee-potential-talent-management-strategy 
  6. https://insights.sweetrush.com/human-centered-business-learning-culture-ebook
  7. https://www.consciouscapitalism.org/philosophy#
  8. https://www.sweetrush.com/building-a-life-centered-business/ 
  9. https://neuroleadership.com/podcast/the-surprising-power-of-autonomy-for-improving-organizational-performance
  10. https://resources.businessolver.com/c/2021-empathy-exec-summ?x=OE03jO&utm_medium=rich%20media%20article&utm_source=WashPO
  11. https://www.businessinsider.com/ben-franklin-effect-2016-12
  12. https://www.radicalcandor.com/
  13. https://elearningindustry.com/communicate-for-resilience-five-step-challenge-for-ld-teams

The Human and Business Benefits of Boosting Employee Resilience and Potential

Or, Why Your Shareholders Care about Karma

If there’s one thing the pandemic has taught us about ourselves, it’s that the problem of any human is the problem of all humans. 

And we humans have more problems ahead. Hardships due to climate change, social unrest and, yes, the next pandemic—everything hiding in the fine print of our insurance policies—will become increasingly common. 

We need to plan now to prevent the reactive decisions of our future fear brains. And we need to heal the accumulated pain1 of the past year and a half. 

Some 41% of our employees are burned out.2 Over five million women—and counting—have left the U.S. workforce, and women of color are disproportionately represented in that number.3 

That’s not just a talent drain; it’s a major systemic failure. The pandemic may be the straw that broke so many workers, but work hasn’t been working for a long time. 

The Hard Truth: It’s Organizations, Not Employees

This Harvard Business Review headline says it all: “Employee Burnout Is a Problem with the Company, Not the Person.”4 And that was back in 2017. 

About one in three forward-thinking leaders, according to Accenture,5 has always understood that supporting the “care and resilience of human workers” goes hand in hand with profits. 

By September 2020, 50% of CEOs had come around. Organizations that supported employees across six mental, physical, social, and financial health measures grew their revenue by over 5%. And that’s during the financial and market turbulence of the past 18 months. And now, their businesses are reaping the rewards. 

How did the other half do? 

They suffered a revenue decline to the tune of -4.7%.5

Revenue during COVID

We won’t call it karma, but there is a direct correlation between doing good and doing well. And doing good begins with the smallest unit of organizational culture: a single employee.

The Smallest Unit of Organizational Culture: The Individual Employee

Like every living thing, humans need abundance and freedom from suffering. When we have those, we have the energy and bandwidth to immerse ourselves in our craft, grow, and innovate. If we’re stuck in survival mode, we can’t engage in this deep work. 

Models like Maslow’s hierarchy of needs;6 Graves, Beck, and Cowan’s Spiral Dynamics;7 and even Kohlberg’s stages of moral development8 illustrate how meeting these conditions help us develop to our full moral, intellectual, and creative potential. 

We’ve simplified these models into three stages of human potential. As you read, consider which stage your organization enables employees to meet—and how you might join that thriving 50% of leaders concerned with the care and resilience of their human workers.5 

Three Stages of Human Potential 

Stage 1: Survival

Stage 1 of Human Potential: Boosting Employee Resilience

An organization that keeps employees in a Stage 1 state via low wages, an authoritarian culture, and lack of autonomy will never see them at their best. Under these conditions of scarcity and insecurity, the fight-or-flight parts of the brain take control—and make it physically impossible to perform tasks like critical thinking, problem-solving, and even impulse control.

Stage 1 living has a price: a “cognitive tax” of the equivalent of 13 or 14 IQ points.9 That’s a tremendous loss for the individual, who might never get to demonstrate (or discover!) their dormant creativity and skills. It’s also a loss for the business: Employees hamstrung at Stage 1 have little bandwidth to perform the vital tasks listed above.

And if an enterprising employee does identify a way to go above and beyond? They might share it—once. But their organizations aren’t really looking for new ideas, at least not from the people on the front lines. 

Sooner or later, employees get the message: thinking and creativity are above their pay grade. They learn to ration their energy and give the absolute minimum while they’re on the clock. 

Stage 2: Security

Stage 2 of Human Potential: Boosting Employee Resilience

An organization that offers employees a Stage 2 existence pays them well enough to live in relative security. With their basic needs met, employees have some free time to engage in family activities, hobbies, and home maintenance. At work, they have sufficient bandwidth to solve problems, meet deadlines, and (usually!) engage others. 

Their work conditions span a wide range, from rigid to slightly more accommodating, and employees at Stage 2 find themselves wishing for more autonomy and trust. They wonder, Why do I have to spend an hour in traffic just so my boss sees me at my desk? Why do I need to ask permission to go to a dentist appointment? 

Any flexibility that is offered tends to be on an ad hoc basis. Under extenuating circumstances, or by the grace of a supervisor, some employees get permission to work from home “just this once” when the kids are sick or the car won’t start. Others are told to use PTO. 

Because asking for special treatment activates the fearful Stage 1 brain, this lack of flexibility adds a cognitive tax. Even the daily crunch of trying to fit it all in—from dropping off the kids in the morning to the overdue checkup—drops the Stage 2 individual down a notch. And in Stage 1 mode, everyone is more likely to be short with a client or overlook an error on a project. 

Their organizations tend to reward good work and punish the bad—and the fear of consequences can make Stage 2 employees reluctant to take risks. They care about their work, but they want projects off their plates and on to the next person as quickly as possible. Going above and beyond is too risky.  

In the process, their organizations lose out on innovation—and the ability to learn and grow. 

Stage 3: Abundance

Stage 3 of Human Potential: Boosting Employee Resilience

At Stage 3, organizations meet employees’ needs—and then some. Wages provide the abundance to cover aspirational items such as education, hobbies, and travel. At work, Stage 3 employees apply creativity to problems and draw connections between their work and the organizational mission. They have better relationships—and longer fuses. 

Remember that autonomy and trust our Stage 2 friends only dream of? These folks have it. Stage 3 employees have full autonomy as to when, where, and how they work. Need to meet across time zones? Shift work hours? Cover time off? Stage 3 employees figure it out with their teams—no permission asked or granted. 

Because everyone is equally special, there’s no such thing as special treatment: the organization never scares anyone back to Stage 1. But life can. We all have experiences—good and bad—that derail our capacity to reason and express ourselves. When these befall the Stage 3 employee, leaders and colleagues offer their immediate support and empathy. 

Empathy isn’t just for the tough times either: Stage 3 organizations don’t punish their people for making mistakes. Managers recognize failure as human—and a natural by-product of pursuing big, hairy, audacious ideas—and stress the importance of learning from them. Failure doesn’t knock a Stage 3 employee back to Stage 1 because it’s not an existential threat—as long as the lesson is learned and owned. 

A group of Stage 3 individuals working toward a shared mission is a happy, powerful bunch. And they’re loyal to the organization that helps them live a good life, reducing costly turnover.10

Takeaway

Still feeling hesitant about offering employees the degree of flexibility and autonomy that helps them operate at Stage 3? 

Consider this: You already know that your company is public-facing and accountable to a very online global audience. But you should also know that every part of your product, practice, and pipeline impacts human and nonhuman lives around the world. And it’s your business to make those lives better.

Of course, the need to do good often feels less immediate when the bottom line is looming. But we humans are wired for empathy, and if we could see all of the people our business connects us to, we couldn’t help caring for them. When we provide abundance for one of those lives, we lift up many lives. 

And, as those 50% of CEOs who make the “care and resilience of human workers” their business have discovered,5 we also secure near- and long-term abundance for our organizations. Doing good is one of the most solid succession plans we can make—and it’s one that’s readily available to all of us.    

Build Your Best Employee Experience 

Want to ramp every employee up to Stage 3? Our eBook It’s All About Your People!: Embracing Human-Centered Business, Workplace Culture, and Learning Design will show you how to re-create work as a source of resilience and growth. 

It’s a curated collection of the best mindsets, practices, and lessons from our two decades together as a human-centered organization—and decade-plus as a fully remote team. Whether you’re a leader, a manager, or an individual contributor, you’ll find plenty of proven steps you can take today (or anytime!) to create a workplace that helps your people thrive.

 References

  1. https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/19/well/mind/covid-mental-health-languishing.html
  2. https://www.shrm.org/about-shrm/press-room/press-releases/pages/nearly-half-of-us-workers-feel-mentally-physically-exhausted-by-end-of-workday.aspx
  3. https://www.americanprogress.org/issues/women/reports/2021/02/01/495209/women-lose-jobs-essential-actions-gender-equitable-recovery/
  4. https://hbr.org/2017/04/employee-burnout-is-a-problem-with-the-company-not-the-person
  5. https://www.accenture.com/us-en/insights/future-workforce/employee-potential-talent-management-strategy 
  6. https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html
  7. https://www.houstonforesight.org/spiral-dynamics-as-a-tool-for-social-change-and-foresight/
  8. https://www.simplypsychology.org/kohlberg.html
  9. https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/sendhil/files/scientificamericanmind0114-58.pdf
  10. https://info.workinstitute.com/hubfs/2020%20Retention%20Report/Work%20Institutes%202020%20Retention%20Report.pdf

Serving Your People, Serving the World: Building a Life-Centered Business at SweetRush

I Love Life. It is simultaneously filled with suffering and abundant in its potential. When life finds a seam, it will burst through and expand. Give a person an opportunity to better themselves, and they will grow toward the light.

I might have always loved life, and watching my daughter grow into the beginning of her womanhood, I can report that she came into this world loving life. Born to love life. I have seen this love of life again and again at SweetRush. And I have learned a bit about how to love life at work.

Serve your people so that they’re able to explore and express the truth, beauty, and goodness in them, and they’ll do amazing things. The problems of the day not only become manageable, they become fodder to make something of good use. Making things with good people is a lot of fun—and when we have those things, we make a positive impact. What could be better in our work? 

People like to make things—so much so that moving rocks and materials around could be said to be a part of our nature. But we don’t just push stuff into a shape; we like to bring those shapes to life: Water through the old aqueducts, electric money through the digital world that connects our activities—and now pushing our materials and energy out into space. It seems that we see ourselves inside of what we shape and bring to life.

Sadly, we’re now learning that some of the things we make have diminished our amazing planet and its living systems. It’s as if these webs of connectivity we are part of are letting us know it’s going to get a bit rocky ahead. Suffering is at hand, and more still will come, so now we turn to look for wisdom about how to master our meaning and purpose. 

What is it all for? 

It’s for life—this is the answer we return to when we get into trouble. The new lives that come into our families, the forests that are splendid with awe and mystery, beauty and air. Sweet air—water, too. A drink of water, when you are truly thirsty, is something that makes you understand why all cultures have built temples, great fountains, works of art, and towns to honor the essential nature of water.

Life’s power and beauty are also abundant in the ways we relate and connect with one another. At this time, when over half our population is digitally connected, we can talk. Yes, there’s the absolutely crazy talk we have been doing on social media, but we can also truly dig deep with people all over the world, sharing solutions, resources, and good will. By the end of the next decade, almost all of us will be connected and interfacing with the next chapter of technology—the metaverse. There we’ll discover just how close we can get through the tools we have developed to share more of our personal and collective energy together.

If we have achieved all we have while being motivated by a value system based on coins, imagine what we can achieve when we’re motivated by the truth that life and its potential are the greatest measurements of value? The answer, of course, is: “Let’s see what’s possible.”

We know a few fundamental things about the potential and value of life. We know that when a life experiences freedom from suffering, it does amazing things. Freedom from suffering doesn’t mean an absence of suffering, but a healthy amount of suffering and the experience of stretching that is a catalyst for the growth of our potential.

Building a Life-Centered Business

It’s also about reclaiming our energy from the times when the suffering has been too much. We know there are fireworks of life potential and goodness when we support others who are suffering—so much so that we build myths and movies about superheroes and award Peace Prizes for it.

We also know that every living thing needs the right amount of abundance: not too much and not too little. Both extreme abundance and extreme lack of abundance cause lots of suffering for everyone because it degrades our shared potential. The indicator of achieving ample abundance is when you begin to serve others’ life potential.

I am certain that there is a way for you to work earnestly with your people, making the things you love to make, that grows life potential. I am even more certain that when you do, you will feel better about yourself and our world. Your people will too.

At SweetRush, we like to make learning and support transformation, using the best technology we can find and a commitment to goodness, truth, and beauty. We like to work with as cool a set of tools, processes, and methodology as we can, too. We like to get intellectual sometimes and pragmatic all the time. 

Our new eBook, It’s All About Your People: Embracing Human-Centered Business, Workplace Culture, and Learning Design is an expression of both the deep and pragmatic work we do: not just our ideas but our urge to share what we know with you. We can attest that there aren’t enough of us to go around. The learning and development industry, once a sort of cleanup crew for sexual harassment or workplace injury lawsuits, is in such need to support the large-scale transformation in our world that the pounding on the doors of our craft is almost deafening. 

I believe that the best of our craft—and SweetRush—is yet to come if we truly focus on what is good for life. This is a pragmatic notion as well as one that makes me happy. If you are in an industry that is in great demand, then where you put your craft makes a big impact. Put it into what you value most.

I believe the onus is on us to put our work toward the world we want to see and, for me, that’s a living world. For my team, the world is what we choose to work for, and we learn about how to serve it better each year. Our reward is that we get to do more of what we love to do while bringing more people together. We get to know people at other organizations who are making things, moving energy together—reducing suffering and increasing abundance in service of life potential.

If there is a hopeful, productive, future age, I believe that it will be called something like the Age of Life Potential, in which people shift their belief systems and mental models and learn new ways to ask and answer: What more is possible with life at the center? How much splendid diversity of care, creativity, and understanding can we weave into the things we make and do? 

When I look down the line of industries, cultures, and ecosystems with life as the focus, what I see is not only worth working toward, it brings me joy and gives my life value. Serving life potential is worth all I am. 

Read more in our eBook, It’s All About Your People: Embracing Human-Centered Business, Workplace Culture, and Learning Design.

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Black Lives Matter.

This year we have been made increasingly aware of how interconnected we all are, and how important it is to have understanding and empathy for one another and to recognize the inequities in our society. 

We stand in solidarity with our Black colleagues, friends, parents, spouses, brothers, sisters, and children.

We are listening, dialoguing and researching ways in which we are connected to systemic racism and injustices. Our SweetRush tribe is one that revels in diversity, yet we know that we are connected to and, in some ways, a part of inequities. Within every profession and firm, there are opportunities to dismantle barriers and SweetRush is committed to going beyond the diversity we already embrace.

This year, Juneteenth took on a special significance for more of us than ever. Moving forward, we will be making Juneteenth Day or Freedom Day a holiday for our entire global SweetRush team, as we have done Martin Luther King Jr. Day since we opened our doors 20 years ago. 

Black Lives Matter. We want to have that written into our cultural DNA, and committing to honor this day is an immediate way to begin. 

We know that the road ahead and the many changes that need to be made in our worldnot just in connection to racial justice, but in economic and environmental justicewill not be easy. We will make mistakes, stumble, and sometimes fall. We will sometimes say the wrong things or act out of ignorance or privilege. We believe that even though we will not get it perfect, it’s time to act together for real and lasting change.

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Working from Home Isn’t a New Idea: It’s All About Family

A SweetRush instructional designer discovers the benefits of working from home – and that it isn’t a new concept in the history of family life.

The call seemed completely out of the blue. While it was true that a year prior I was sending my résumé out to anyone who would take it, my job search had come to a halt. I had a new baby, and I was committed to spending his first years at home, giving him my full attention.

That baby boy was my everything. By the time he was a few months old, he had sleeping down to a science. Four hours during the day. Twelve hours at night. It was a new mother’s dream. Except that I was bored out of my mind. Work had always been my creative outlet. It disappeared overnight, and Pinterest crafting wasn’t doing the trick.

So when the call came that asked if I was interested in a virtual position as an Instructional Designer, I leapt at the opportunity. It was at that position that I met a SweetRushian and discovered that SweetRush and I were a match made in heaven.

The past five years with SweetRush have been a rush of personal accomplishments and change: two more baby boys, four cross-country moves, a year of homeschooling, and plenty of activity from three growing boys. As a matter of fact, my work with SweetRush has been one of the few things that haven’t changed. Throughout all the change, working from home has given me amazing opportunities to use my creative talents, generate income, AND remain resolved to be a stay-at-home mommy.

Isn’t the technological age incredible?

But what if I told you that the work-from-home approach is not unique to our millennium? I recently came across a little gem of our nation’s history that gave me a new perspective on our virtual company. Working from home isn’t a new idea at all. Working from home is what nearly all our nation’s fathers and mothers did in the beginning.

Up until the Industrial Revolution, very small numbers of people worked outside of the home. At the time of the American Revolution, 75 percent of the colonists were farmers. Many others owned small shops in the front of their home. Husbands and wives worked side by side to contribute to the family economy1.

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It would have been nonsense to ask a colonial wife whether she planned on returning to work after having her baby. As the colonial family expanded, she continued to contribute, produce, and assign work duties to her children as they grew. Her husband worked closely with their sons to pass on his trade and his values. The entire family worked toward a common good.

All that changed with the Industrial Revolution, which drastically altered the roles of fathers and mothers.

Fathers now left the home to work in factories. As their physical presence in the home decreased, so did their influence. This left mothers to become the primary caregivers at home. As a matter of fact, mid-19th-century parenting books and pamphlets stopped referencing the father’s role altogether.2

And the mother’s role may have changed more dramatically. The things she used to contribute to the economy of her home—canned goods, candles, textiles, soaps—were now being mass-produced in factories. Women went from being producers to consumers. They went from being an important part of the family business to being dependent on their husband’s paycheck. And the parenting role that they used to share with a husband was now largely theirs alone.3

Looking back, the rise of the women’s rights movement of the 1960s was all too predictable. Women wanted more than what society required of them and began again to enter the workforce. But there was a question that wasn’t answered yet: What about the kids?

 

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Before after-school programs and day care, school-aged children were responsible for their own after-school care. One 2004 study says that this latchkey generation, Generation X, “went through its all-important, formative years as one of the least parented, least nurtured generations in U.S. history.” Perhaps this is one of the greatest examples of the decline of family values in America.

And I’m not sure that family values have made a resurgence. A recent report shows that only 53 percent of millennials think that their families make up “a lot” of their identity, compared with 61 percent of Gen Xers who think so.

But for me, family is everything. Perhaps I can’t change the next generation’s take on family identity, but I can have an impact on three little boys.
I started my parenting journey planning to value my family to the exclusion of all else. I wanted to be present for my children and to pass along my values and morals to them. But just a few months in, I was aching to have my career back. As much as I loved that baby, I had creativity and talents that he just couldn’t appreciate.

For me, working from home was the perfect answer. It meant that I figured out how to snuggle a baby while working at a computer. It meant that in the span of an hour I could both kiss a boo-boo and conduct meetings with corporate executives. It meant that I could teach my child to read while growing an amazing list of clients. And I hope it will mean that at the end of this parenting journey, I will send three tightly bonded brothers into the world who have learned what it means to have integrity, work hard, stand up for what is right, and love their mother for all time.

 

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As working from home becomes practical for more professions and as more mothers and fathers spend more time balancing work and family from home, I wonder what the impact will be for the next generation. Will they identify more strongly with their family? Will they, like the sons and daughters of our nation’s parents, benefit from their parents’ examples of hard work, dedication, and creativity? I hope so. I for one am happy to be a part of this shift in our culture, and I would encourage any parent with the opportunity to work from home to seize it and enjoy it!

Becky Schmidt is an Instructional Designer at SweetRush.


1 Mary P Ryan, Womanhood in America: From Colonial Times to the Present (New York: New Viewpoints, 1975),25-39.
2 Maxine L. Margolis, Mothers and Such: Views of American Women and Why They Changed (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1984) 6, 33.
3 Nancy Pearcey, Total Truth: Liberating Christianity from Its Cultural Captivity (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books, 2004),331.

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A Personal Story of the Power of Empathy in the Workplace

A SweetRush project manager shares her moving story and the power of empathy in the workplace.

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In January 2014 I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was only 41 and to say it was a shock would be understating my reaction. It was caught early, and I was fortunate to not need chemotherapy. I also didn’t need radiation, but that is because I chose to have a bilateral mastectomy. I had four surgeries by the time that year was over. Without a doubt, it was the most challenging time of my life.

The unending love and support from my family and friends helped carry me through. My SweetRush family also supported me and my daughter in ways I never could have imagined—from phone calls and emails to a Spotify get-well playlist just for me, letters and cards, flowers, candy, tea, and countless intangible acts of love and support. It was amazingly wonderful and helped me get through that year. They cried with me, laughed with me and celebrated with me when it was clear that I was going to be okay. The collective love was astounding and carried me through some pretty hard moments. I could feel the love across the miles.

When I hear the word empathy, words like compassion, connection, listening, and heart comes to mind. When I think about empathy, I think about how powerful it is, and yet how untapped it is. I also think about how much empathy flows through SweetRush. And I have been super fortunate to be the recipient of so much of the SweetRush empathy.

There is a lot happening in the world. From mass shootings to destructive weather events to wars, these are turbulent times. And no doubt there are individuals experiencing personal life challenges as well. There is also a lot of good happening in the world. Empathy shows up time and again during these situations, especially at SweetRush.

I see it during our meetings, during personal conversations with my coworkers, and on a larger scale when our company leaders take the time to send us messages of love and hope. I see it on our social media posts, in our email signatures, and even our Skype profiles. We are love and light to each other. We lift each other up during difficult times and celebrate each other during good times. We mourn for the world’s tragedies, and we spread good vibes from positive news stories.

It makes a difference knowing that SweetRush has a deep love and respect for all of us and for our world, and I feel incredibly fortunate to be a part of it all. Our old tagline was “We Care.” Nothing could be more true.

And I still listen to my get-well playlist from time to time!

Trina Jones is a Project Manager at SweetRush. She has been working with us for more than six years.

How Working from Home Changed My Life

One SweetRushian’s story of how working from home helped her balance work and family.

I feel very fortunate that throughout my career, I’ve had the privilege of working at great companies doing what I love most: recruiting!

When I first applied for an internship in Human Resources, I thought to myself, “Bah! HR sounds so boring.” I couldn’t have been more wrong. I ended up recruiting IT and creative rock stars at a digital agency, surrounded by the coolest people and personalities. It was so much fun to go to work every day, and I couldn’t believe they were paying me, too! That was the beginning of my passion for working with people and making a perfect match between a candidate and the employer—a passion that only keeps growing with time.

A couple of years ago, things were going great at work, and I knew I was on the right career path. Those days, I spent most of my time working and learning how to do my job better and better. Well, to be honest, a good portion of my day was not spent at work, but not by my choice! Here’s a fact you may not know if you don’t live in or have never been to Costa Rica: the amount of cars in the city at rush hour is insane! During my morning and evening commute, I was spending about 3.5 hours every day trapped between cars, which wasn’t fun. In spite of this , I loved my job. Also, since my friends around me with professional careers were doing the same thing, I assumed this was the way it had to be.

And then something amazing happened. Ever since I was a little girl, my biggest dream in life was to become a mom and have a family. And then one day I received life-changing news: I was pregnant.

With this news, I faced a huge challenge: I knew I wanted to keep working because I love what I do, but at the same time, since I had waited so long to become a mom, I didn’t want to miss a single second of my baby’s life. What would I do? I started looking at my options, and then I came across an ad for a recruiter position at SweetRush.

Since my background was in digital agencies, I didn’t know much about eLearning. What caught my attention in that moment was the possibility of working from home and being present in my baby’s life. Here was a company that is completely virtual—meaning everyone works remotely! I had visions of giving up the horrible commute and spending more time with my new family.

Well, I followed my heart and decided to quit my job. A few weeks later I started at SweetRush as a recruiter.

I still didn’t know what to expect from this company, so unlike others in Costa Rica. Would I enjoy this field and my job as much as I did before?

I’m not going to lie: the first 15 days were a combination of going crazy between my baby and work, and trying to adapt to not having anyone around besides my laptop. Yet I found myself adjusting to this new type of work. People were so kind and embracing that it wasn’t hard to feel welcomed in a virtual environment. I loved the flexibility of being able to organize my daily personal tasks with my job, and now it just works out naturally. I work with talented people every day, and the field we’re in, performance improvement, is all about helping people learn and become better at their jobs, which ultimately improves their lives. The part I play in that—helping find the very best candidates to grow our team—makes me feel good!

I always say to candidates who are considering a position at SweetRush that I never knew it was possible to have an amazing balance between your personal life and work life before I worked here. When SweetRush says, “We care,” which used to be our tagline and is a very strong part of our culture and values, we truly mean it. Now I’m not only working doing what I love but also dedicating time to my family and to other hobbies that keep me happy and healthy. I’m glad I took that leap of faith, but more than anything, I’m thankful for this life-changing opportunity. This is the future of work, and I just hope more people take advantage of it.

Melissa Chacon is a talent sourcer at SweetRush, working in the Talent Solutions team. If you are interested in open positions at SweetRush, please visit our Join Us page!

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Breaking Through the Pixels: Bonding with Coworkers in a Virtual Company

I have been working from home for SweetRush, a virtual company focusing on performance improvement, for four years. My coworkers are some of the most talented, creative, and hardworking people I have had the pleasure to work with. Day after day, I collaborate with my team to create engaging and unique online courses.

Through the course of the four years, our team has learned about each other’s families, celebrated triumphs, and have shared life stories. It’s the same banter people engage in physical offices to get to know one another. After four years, I felt I knew my coworkers pretty well. We communicate every day via chat and video. I would see their faces in photos and see their mannerisms in video conferences. I felt I knew my friends in full dimension.

It would be terrific to meet them in person if the opportunity presented itself, but I did not understand how essential it was until my family and I traveled to Costa Rica, where I met many of them face-to-face for the first time.

Costa Rica had been on our list of places to visit far before I started working at SweetRush. Something about it always called to us, most likely the beaches and the monkeys. With spring break approaching and our daughters old enough to travel comfortably (for my taste), the timing was perfect to make the trip.

In typical Donahue fashion, we waited until just a few months before to start planning. We were grateful to have two weeks for the trip, but were only able to mentally plan the first half with so many unknowns. How would driving in Central America go? Would the girls make the long road trips without pushing each other out of the moving car? Would we even make it to our first destination?

Fortunately, from the moment we landed in Costa Rica, the magic of the experience was apparent. We were graciously hosted the first night by two SweetRush coworkers who split time between San Francisco and Costa Rica. Seeing their familiar faces helped us get acquainted with our new surroundings and, more importantly, the laid back, relaxed pace of Costa Rican life.

The first night, we were treated to dinner at Zompopilla’s, an extraordinary restaurant in the heart of Ciudad Colon. To our surprise, several of my coworkers were awaiting our arrival. We chatted over ceviche and other delicious bites. They shared their excitement for their country and us visiting it.

Shane’s family and a few of our Costa Rican teammates get together for a yummy dinner and show off their hats direct from Oakland, California!

Shane’s family and a few of our Costa Rican teammates and friends get together for a yummy dinner
and show off their hats direct from Oakland, California!
It was that evening that it became so clear what my experience at a virtual company had been missing: socializing with my coworkers and friends without a screen of pixels between us. Face to face. Together, we were a group of friends sharing a meal and something more that all the current technology is unable to duplicate. Energy. The energy generated from people sharing stories in parallel added a dimension to our relationship that I would have missed entirely had we not made the decision to travel outside our comfort level to Costa Rica, rent the car, and introduce our kids to some of the warmest, most dynamic people I know.

From left: Carlitos, Tino and Shane… who are clearly not having any fun at all!

From left: Carlitos, Tino, and Shane… who are clearly not having any fun at all!
The rest of our trip was as incredible as the first night. We were fortunate to have the opportunity to meet the Costa Rican SweetRush team and their families several other times over the course of our stay. It opened my and my family’s eyes to the importance of travel, but also served as a reminder of the importance to reach out, past texts and chats and video conferences, to discover and celebrate direct human contact with coworkers, especially at a virtual company.

Shane Donahue is a Creative Director at SweetRush and lives in Oakland, CA. He uses his background in video games, film, animation, and commercials to create engaging eLearning along with the SweetRush team.